What I need to do as au pairs

Firstly, get the right position in your new family. Not like au pairs in foreign countries, there would not be so much housework ( for already home-keeper already there ). You are the elder children in the family, as one part of a whole , not a stranger .

Secondly, stay and play with the kids as much as you can . Just like their elder brother or sister, be a good model for them in habits, behaviors, talking, manners, etc. While talking with them in English, you can also let them be influenced by Western culture after parents’ permission .

Lastly but not with the least importance, you need to enjoy everything , not like I have to do it, should be I want to it. That’s how you can make your Chinese stay meaningful and unforgettable.